What should a Girl wear?

I’ve been there; you’ve been there; who are we kidding? We’ve all been there. Those side glances, that look, those whispers, we know what they mean, don’t we? They mean: look at her: what is she even wearing?

If you’ve been brought up in a judgmental society like ours, you’re bound to turn a few heads when you dress, as they deem ‘inappropriately’. These looks come from both genders. From females for “would you just look at her!” and for males again: “would you just look at her”, the tones of both statements are different of course and so is the intended purpose.

I never realized that it was the people’s perception rather than the way women dress in our nation, until I visited China, and I noticed nobody gave a second glance at you no matter what you were wearing. It compelled me to think, just how much pressure we were going through intentionally or unintentionally. 

Should a girl not wear whatever she wants? Should she take the pressure? The looks? The shifty eyes? just because she wore whatever she wanted? I can understand the concern; we do live in a society that is not safe for females, sadly. But, of course, there’s a time and place for everything. I mean, would you wear shorts to a formal event? You’ve got more sense than that! But nonetheless, what a girl should wear is only a matter of her own business, and no one else’s!