Social Media Chaos

I would like to start off by saying that I do not mean to offend anyone, and should anyone feel hurt by my words, I would like to apologize beforehand.

Lately, I have been seeing a lot of chaos on social media, the attention and the discussion of two major situations in the nation: the reigning Miss Nepal World, Shrinkhala Khatiwada in the Miss World event and the murder case of Nirmala Pant. These are two independent situations but what baffles me is how one is overpowering the other or rather how people take it as one situation overpowering the other. Are the two situations being compared and why?

There has been a mild debate going on regarding the two situations by not all, but some people. People have gone as far as to write what good would a woman winning in the Miss World mean to a country where another woman has not been provided justice. Now, I know the motive behind such words is to bring attention to the latter. Believe me; I have not been living under a rock this whole time. I know everything that has been going on in both the cases. And the significance and the attention given to both the situations is justified at their own place. But let us not overlap one situation with the other. Let us keep on supporting Shrinkala Khatiwada in her beautiful journey of Miss World in Sanya, China. Let us also keep on protesting and hoping that Nirmala Pant will receive justice.

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